stories and charts

i'm a twentysomething earning my stripes (and degree) in graphic design.
from texas, to new york city, back to texas. this is my personal blog.

a man should pursue a woman like he is pursuing her heart and not her body. it’s so easy to get wrapped up in infatuation that you mistake something like lust for actual chemistry. then when the relationship starts to fizzle, you can’t figure out why.

i believe you need to establish a strong foundation first. you need to establish that trusting bond. that healthy friendship. don’t send mixed signals. make a decision and go with it. be a man. 

life is not like a set of monkey bars. you can’t wait until your hand is securely on the next thing before you let go of that which you were holding.

how should a man pursue a woman?
with respect. with purity. with thoughtfulness.
with grace. with love. with trust. with kindness.
with clear intentions. without fear. with adventure.
with excitement. with vulnerability.

- foxesthroughfences

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    I frequent this girls blog. Its good stuff, y’all should follow her :) Oh and she’s really pretty and named Brooke, too.
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